How do you feel when you walk into someone’s house and it looks well-organized and pristinely clean? You immediately feel the need to kick off your shoes at the door and it doesn’t occur to you to eat on the couch or to make a mess in any way. Do you feel the same urge of impeccable behavior when you walk into someone’s house and it’s dirty or a mess? Of course not; there is no need to. You see, without saying a word, but simply by their behavior and lifestyle, the homeowners have set a standard for how you will respect them and their space. By their actions, they have communicated a standard for how they want to be treated. It’s easy to see this system of setting standards when applied to our homes but it is less simple, although equally true, to see how this same system affects our relationships. What relationship standards are your behaviors and actions setting? Do you love yourself, respect yourself, and treat yourself in a pristine respectable manner; inspiring others to do the same? Or do you break promises to yourself, not care for your health, not forgive yourself, and not show yourself