Mindset Matters

“Sorry” as a Verb

“Sorry” as a Verb

I have done some deplorable things. I have behaved in ways that make me disgusted and embarrassed at the same time.  I used to think saying sorry was enough. I used to feel that since I was incredibly kind and generous 99% of my life, that the 1% in which I was...

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Fairytale Relationships

Fairytale Relationships

I don't mind when people tell me that my relationship ideals are a fairytale. If it is a fairytale to be loved, to be respected, to have passion, a moving and active love -- if that is fairytale, then yes. If mutual respect, love, lust and friendship is a fairytale,...

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How You Do Anything is How You Do Everything

How You Do Anything is How You Do Everything

Wow! Crazy when I see it side by side! This was supposed to be posted with an inspirational quote, but I feel the need to share what I feel. I hope you don't mind a morning rambling (or therapy session). How you do anything is how you do everything. I look at this...

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You’re Not Rejected – You’re Redirected

You’re Not Rejected – You’re Redirected

We often have a diluted sense of self; we do not see the magnitude of the greatness inside of us. As a result, most people live within the parameters of the lowest part of their life; they dwell in the basement of their capability. When you have a small picture of...

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10 Things You MUST Know About Relationships

10 Things You MUST Know About Relationships

Life has a way of answering questions you didn't even ask. As I reflect upon my adult life so far, I find this to be especially true when it comes to relationships. From being the recipient and the perpetrator of heartbreak, to cyclically selecting the wrong type, to...

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The Right Wrong Thing

The Right Wrong Thing

It’s so interesting… the things we do, the way we justify them, and how perspective clears the jagged edges of our past to shape a smooth experiential memory. For me… it’s lying to get on the stage in the late ’90s… until 2000 or 2001. After getting out of the...

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